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15 September 2007

upset..

Two people in my life are facing problems.. Major relationship problems. I really have no idea how to help them or console them.. I can totally feel what they are experiencing. It is very horrible. You can really feel your heart pain, literally. And I am not kidding. You feel very low and sad and angry. At loss.. Things do not go the way it should be. When another person is involved, you just do not know how to handle.. I can only say that communication is the key. Of course, it is easier said than done. How to handle your own emotions and also have the other party's feelings in mind? Because no one is a mind-reader. You can only pass the message out by talking. Explain your point of view. What if the other party is not willing to talk? Is that the end? Ah... How? Both parties must put in effort to make things work.

I hope things get better for them real soon.

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